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&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8220;Thank you for the warm welcome. Really hoping to be a big help to others on here.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithataxia.org" target="_blank"&gt;Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23869925375</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23869925375</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 09:53:00 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group</category><category>Ataxia</category></item><item><title>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;&lt;span&gt;Thank you&amp;#8230;Glad to be here.&amp;#8221;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23869925448</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23869925448</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 09:52:28 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</category><category>Fibromyalgia</category></item><item><title>Living with Psoriatic Arthritis (PsA) - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thank you for the welcome.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living with Psoriatic Arthritis (PsA) - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23817903457</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23817903457</guid><pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 13:53:43 -0700</pubDate><category>Living with Psoriatic Arthritis (PsA) - Online Support Group</category><category>PsA</category></item><item><title>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group </title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thanks for the warm welcome. Once i get used to the site i will be happy. Many thank you.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org/" target="_self"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23804385735</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23804385735</guid><pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 09:50:43 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</category><category>Fibromyalgia</category></item><item><title>Life With Lupus - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thanks for the welcome.  I will check out the Fibro website as well. All of this is new to me and just finding out today it&amp;#8217;s still has not set in. Found this site by chance through a search and so glad I did.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lifewithlupus.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Life With Lupus - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23739625887</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23739625887</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 09:45:24 -0700</pubDate><category>Life With Lupus - Online Support Group</category><category>Lupus</category></item><item><title>Living With CIDP - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thank you!&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithcidp.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With CIDP - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23708358826</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23708358826</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 18:45:36 -0700</pubDate><category>LivingWithCIDP - Online Support Group</category><category>CIDP</category></item><item><title>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thanks! for creating a site like this. I joined the group to find and share tips to improve my life. &amp;#8220;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23706645705</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23706645705</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 18:20:00 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</category><category>Fibromyalgia</category></item><item><title>Living With Erythromelalgia Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Hi Thanks for the lovely welcome&amp;#160;: )&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwitherythromelalgia.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With Erythromelalgia Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23706540640</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23706540640</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 18:19:25 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Erythromelalgia Online Support Group</category><category>Erythromelalgia</category></item><item><title>

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;On behalf of &lt;a href="http://bensfriends.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Ben’s Friends&lt;/a&gt;, congratulations on all of your &lt;/span&gt;success&lt;span&gt; Lindsey!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;/ul&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23677236264</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23677236264</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 09:56:32 -0700</pubDate><category>avm support</category><category>bensfriends</category></item><item><title>Glossopharyngeal Neuralgia (GPN) Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;New Member of &lt;a href="http://www.livingwithgpn.org" target="_blank"&gt;Glossopharyngeal Neuralgia (GPN) Support Group&lt;/a&gt; Says: &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8220;&lt;span&gt;Thank you for inviting me to this support group.  I have been busy reading everyone&amp;#8217;s comments and feel like it is a great place to gain information and support. I would also like to contribute as time goes on, and hopefully help others in what they may experiencing.&amp;#8221;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23655491711</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23655491711</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 21:12:44 -0700</pubDate><category>Glossopharyngeal Neuralgia (GPN)</category><category>GlossopharyngealNeuralgia</category></item><item><title>Eosinophilic Esophagitis Support Group</title><description>&lt;a href="http://rarediseases.bensfriends.org/group/eosinophilic-esophagitis?xg_source=activity"&gt;Eosinophilic Esophagitis Support Group&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;New Group started for &lt;a href="http://rarediseases.bensfriends.org/group/eosinophilic-esophagitis?xg_source=activity" target="_blank"&gt;Eosinophilic Esophagitis&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23596499208</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23596499208</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 22:52:09 -0700</pubDate><category>EosinophilicEsophagitis</category><category>Eosinophilic Esophagitis Support</category></item><item><title>Living With Erythromelalgia Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thanks for the welcome. Good to know you are all out there.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwitherythromelalgia.org" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With Erythromelalgia Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23549996724</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23549996724</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 09:51:25 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Erythromelalgia</category></item><item><title>Life With ADD Taking Off</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ben&amp;#8217;s Friends (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a class="  twitter-atreply pretty-link" href="https://twitter.com/#!/bensfriends" rel="nofollow" data-screen-name="bensfriends" target="_blank"&gt;@&lt;strong&gt;bensfriends&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;) support site for ADD (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a class="twitter-timeline-link" href="http://t.co/gNHEKq68" rel="nofollow" title="http://www.lifewithadd.org" target="_blank" data-expanded-url="http://www.lifewithadd.org" data-ultimate-url="http://www.lifewithadd.org/"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lifewithadd.org" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.lifewithadd.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;) taking off. Thx to Debbie &amp;amp; Abby for being awesome moderators! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a class="  twitter-hashtag pretty-link" href="https://twitter.com/#!/search/%23add" title="#add" data-query-source="hashtag_click" target="_blank"&gt;#&lt;strong&gt;add&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23503034637</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23503034637</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 15:21:33 -0700</pubDate><category>add</category><category>addsupport</category></item><item><title>Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8221; Thanks. I hope this is what I need.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithataxia.org/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong class="gmail_sendername"&gt;Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23486904391</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23486904391</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 10:14:43 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group</category><category>Ataxia</category></item><item><title>How is a BensFriends.org Patient Community Different From a Facebook Support Group?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;A member of our Psoriatic Arthritis patient community recently posted a message titled &amp;#8220;Who Needs Facebook&amp;#8230;This is the Place for Me.&amp;#8221;  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-facebook-this-is-the-place-for-me" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-..." target="_blank"&gt;http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-&amp;#8230;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It emphasized to me some important differences between a Facebook support group and a BensFriends.org patient community.  Facebook-only support groups are always going to grow faster b/c there are already hundreds of millions of users on Facebook.  If nothing else is available, I think Facebook-only support groups are a good option.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, since we&amp;#8217;ve been running patient communities for 4 years now, we&amp;#8217;ve seen that once a BensFriends.org patient community reaches critical mass, members prefer our patient communities over Facebook-only support groups.  Our BensFriends.org members tend to be much more active on our community than members of a Facebook-only support group.  Why is that?  How are we different?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-facebook-this-is-the-place-for-me" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-..." target="_blank"&gt;http://www.livingwithpsoriaticarthritis.org/forum/topics/who-needs-&amp;#8230;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Here&amp;#8217;s how I think a BensFriends.org patient community is different from a Facebook-only support group:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. We Know How to Attract and Develop Amazing Moderators&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Our awesome moderators create a special sense of community and family.  I say it all the time, but it&amp;#8217;s absolutely true.  Members come back NOT because the web site has more features or is easier to use, but because &lt;em&gt;our moderators really care and it shows.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. We Know How To Run Patient Communities&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Running 30+ patient communities, we are able to see things that a moderator of one facebook group might not see.  We can teach someone how to be a great moderator.  We know what members might want, depending on their condition.  We know how running a small community is different from running a large community.  Sometimes, life happens and a sole moderator can not be lead the group forever, so it&amp;#8217;s important to have a great team in place.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. We Can Offer More Than Support&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of the unexpected consequences of the publicity that has followed our jump in traffic this year has been that companies and organizations have approached us wanting to partner with us.    This is great because we can offer more to our members now.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In 2012, for the first time ever, we&amp;#8217;ve been able to provide &lt;em&gt;free legal help&lt;/em&gt; for members (Advocacy for Patients), &lt;em&gt;free medical consultations&lt;/em&gt; (2nd.md),&lt;em&gt;fundraising campaigns&lt;/em&gt; to help cover medical expenses or raise money for charity (GoFundMe.com),&lt;em&gt; free customized medical information&lt;/em&gt; (PatientPower.info, SavantMD.com), &lt;em&gt;free genetic counseling&lt;/em&gt; (Rare Genomics Institute), and more to come.  All of this is possible because we bring together many rare conditions under one umbrella.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thoughts?  How can we do even more to help patients?  All new ideas are welcome.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8212;Ben&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;ben@bensfriends.org&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23432604530</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23432604530</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 12:50:08 -0700</pubDate><category>facebook</category><category>services</category><category>behindthescenes</category></item><item><title>Uncertain About Fibromyalgia</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org/forum/topic/show?id=3965623%3ATopic%3A48340&amp;xgs=1&amp;xg_source=msg_share_topic"&gt;Uncertain About Fibromyalgia&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Wonderful post about &lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org/forum/topic/show?id=3965623%3ATopic%3A48340&amp;xgs=1&amp;xg_source=msg_share_topic" target="_blank"&gt;Fibromyalgia Support&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23293029136</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23293029136</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 08:36:50 -0700</pubDate><category>Fibromyalgia</category><category>FibromyalgiaSupport</category><category>bensfriends</category></item><item><title>Support Amyloid Disease</title><description>&lt;a href="http://amyloidosissupportnetwork.org/forum/topic/show?id=6487120%3ATopic%3A1414&amp;xgs=1&amp;xg_source=msg_share_topic"&gt;Support Amyloid Disease&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Terrific post by Louisa on &lt;a href="http://amyloidosissupportnetwork.org" target="_blank"&gt;Amyloid Support&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23281578762</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23281578762</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 01:00:40 -0700</pubDate><category>AmyloidDisease</category><category>amyloidsupport</category><category>bensfriends</category></item><item><title>In My World it is hard to get people to see who I am past my wheelchair. It is hard to have real, meaningful relationships with boys. It is hard getting around on my own and I can’t do some of the thi - Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithataxia.org/photo/in-my-world-it-is-hard-to-get-people-to-see-who-i-am-past-my#.T7OcaNZZ484.tumblr"&gt;In My World it is hard to get people to see who I am past my wheelchair. It is hard to have real, meaningful relationships with boys. It is hard getting around on my own and I can’t do some of the thi - Living With Ataxia - Online Support Group&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23279448061</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23279448061</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:25:20 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New member says:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#8220;Thank you.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.livingwithfibro.org/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23276826667</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23276826667</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 22:01:38 -0700</pubDate><category>Living With Fibromyalgia - Online Support Group</category><category>Fibromyalgia</category></item><item><title>"When I hear, “If it isn’t broke don’t fix it” I think, ” If it isn’t broke doesn’t mean you can’t..."</title><description>“When I hear, “If it isn’t broke don’t fix it” I think, ” If it isn’t broke doesn’t mean you can’t make it better””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;John “JC” Colyer (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://jccolyer.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;jccolyer&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23243668320</link><guid>http://blog.bensfriends.org/post/23243668320</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:15:36 -0700</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

